Discovering G-d

After years of trying to figure out how to teach the experience of finding G-d (as I have tried to teach the steps of intuitive thinking etc), I have realized one step that works for those who would like to have G-d but are too angry to find such: Forgive people - self and significant others [parent; sibling; spouse; friend] - and at least begin by forgiving humanity in general including oneself and others in general.